Calling vs Lack

They feel identical from the inside. Here's what actually tells them apart.

VS SERIES — EPISODE 01

CALLING vs LACK

They feel identical from the inside. Here's what tells them apart.

CALLING
  • Moves toward something
  • The making is the point
  • Complete without the reception
  • Would build this regardless
  • Already myself — this wants through

"I am already here. This wants to come through."

LACK
  • Moves away from something
  • Needs the work to land
  • The gap is still there after
  • Stops when the proof arrives
  • When I have this — then I'll feel like myself

"When I have this, I will feel like myself."

THE QUESTION

What would you build if you already had everything this building is supposed to give you?

VS is a series about the pairs of states that get confused most. Next: Fear vs Timing.

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